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  • Writer's pictureMadame Valkyrie Veda

Acronyms Explained

If you're just starting out in the world of kink the countless acronyms can prove quite overwhelming. I've compiled a list of common acronyms used in the BDSM scene that will hopefully help you better understand what it all means.


24/7 - An arrangement in which protocols are in place continuously


AB - Adult Baby


ATM - Ass To Mouth


B&D - Bondage and Discipline


BBW - Big Beautiful Woman


BDSM - Bondage, Discipline/Dominance, Submission/Sadism, Masochism


BYOT - Bring Your Own Toys


CBT - Cock and Ball Torture


CD - Crossdresser


CEI - Cum Eating Instructions


CFNM - Clothed Female Naked Male


CG/L - Caregiver/Little


CNC - Consensual Non Consent (rape play)


CP - Corporal Punishment


DDLG/B - Daddy Dom/Little Girl/Boy


DL - Diaper Lover


D/s - Dominant/submissive


FLR - Female Led Relationship


FUBAR - Fucked Up Beyond All Recognition/Repair/Recovery


HP - High Protocol


JOI - Jerk Off Instructions


MDLG/B - Mommy Domme/Little Girl/Boy


M/s - Mistress or Master/slave


OTK - Over The Knee


PRICK - Personal Responsibility Informed Consensual Kink


POV - Point Of View


RACK - Risk Aware Consensual Kink


S&M / SM - Sadism & Masochism / Sadomasochism


SAM - Smart Ass Masochist


SPH - Small Penis Humiliation


SSC - Safe, Sane, Consensual


SW - Safe Word


T&D - Tease and Denial


TENS - Transcutaneous Electrical Nerve Stimulation (a device commonly used in electric play)


TPE - Total Power Exchange


TV - Transvestite


WS - Watersports


YKINMKBYKIOK - Your Kink Is Not My Kink But Your Kink Is OK



Hope this helps!


Madame Veda












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